Rediscover Your Ecstasy
Whether you are in a new or long-term relationship; single, married or recovering from a painful relationship, we can strategize about how to take you to a higher level, and support you in moving toward a more fulfilling, gratifying and passion filled life.
The tools we use are powerful and effective in helping people choose their highest options –among them: Sacred Sexuality Coaching, Compassionate Communication, Voice Dialogue, Holotropic Breathwork, Tantra, Relationship Counseling and Life Purpose.
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“Most people think that the thing we are looking for in life is meaning. I don’t think that’s it at all. I think that most people are looking for an experience, which connects them to the ecstasy of what it could feel like to be totally alive. To know the unburdened state of total aliveness is the pinnacle of the human potential.” - Joseph Campbell
Did you know that our natural state is ecstasy? A person living in a balanced emotional, mental, physical and spiritual condition is ecstatic. Our life energy was meant to give us this blissful feeling. Everything we do in life either contributes to or diminishes our aliveness.
Do you know what it is that makes you feel vital and enthusiastic about life?
Do you hunger for a loving relationship in which you are valued for who you are?
Do you desire a relationship where your feelings and needs are heard with compassion?
Do you long to be appreciated and spoken to consciously and kindly?
Do you want to feel more connected and intimate with your beloved?
Would you like to enjoy passionate and sacred sex?
If you answered YES to any of these questions, you are aware of your precious life force that can move you toward this obtainable goal. It is natural and healthy to desire the experiences that reveal our true value, and our true nature. To love and be loved is one of life’s greatest gifts.
The Five Foundations of a Loving Relationship
1. Enhanced Intimacy
2. Compassionate Communication
3. Enlightened Sexuality
4. Connection to Source
5. Fulfillment of Life Purpose
Enhanced Intimacy occurs when we reveal our true selves. For someone to come closer, they must feel safe and attracted to the signals we convey through our words, gestures, tone of voice and body language. It includes a desire to enhance each other’s lives, and a willingness to do what it takes to accomplish that.
Compassionate Communication or NVC (Non-Violent Communication), as taught by Marshall Rosenberg, is a powerful communication technology we have used for many years. It puts us in touch with core needs and the feelings that drive them. It is the fastest way to establish clarity in communications that we have seen.
Enlightened Sexuality is available to anyone willing to be fully present and surrender to the power of love. The sexual becomes sacred when we use our sexual energies to explore the depths of our beings with full awareness. When we bring meditative awareness to this place, loving becomes a spiritual practice and an opportunity to dissolve our perception of separation. Divine guidance comes easily when we learn the language of gratitude. When we recognize the value in our life, and express gratitude for it, the Universe gives us more. It’s that simple.
Fulfillment of Life Purpose happens as we become clear about what is important, and discover the tools with which we make our lives most effective. In order to receive our hearts desires and fulfill our life purpose we must: commit to showing up with full attention; be willing to communicate our feelings and needs effectively without blame or judgment; develop an awareness of what has the most heart and meaning; release control of how life will unfold; cultivate a curious attitude, and be open to new possibilities in each moment.
The basic necessity: Be in a relationship with someone who is willing to grow with you!
At times, all relationships need focused attention and help in navigating turbulent times. Developing a conscious relationship with life-enhancing qualities is a learned art. Few of us received effective role models that taught us what we need to know, to live in complete harmony with our partners.
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“When the teachings of Tantra are activated with the heart, they become very powerful. Joan and Tomas excel in bringing a mature love into Tantra.” - Kutira and Raphael, Oceanic Tantra teachers
“Joan and Tomas are amazing. Their intuition, healing skills and expertise combined with their fabulous humor, grace and huge hearts created the most delightful and transformational session of my life!” - Sven, Businessman from Sweden
“My Beloved, Peter and I had such a wonderful time with you. We are quite changed now. Our life together is fuller and more loving than it ever has been, and we are more conscious of our love for each other than before. Thank you sincerely for your guidance. You are doing life-changing work!” – Connie, Dental Hygienist
Sacred Sexuality is a practice that connects us deeply to life and the mystery of our existence. We can use that force to awaken to the fullness of who we are.
“My wife and I have not had a fulfilling sex life in 15 years. Working with you we are now coming into a relationship where we see each other in a different light. We are learning to be playful and flirtatious with each other. We are having fun and celebrating our life together. We no longer have “sex”. We are now loving each other in every way. She loves my “wand of light” as much as I love her “sacred space”. It’s the blessing we never thought we’d receive!”- Mike, Physician
“Geri came home from Maui with such a sense of joy, poise, enthusiasm, and peace with the world that she looked ten years younger. She loved the week with you and we’ve been connecting every day, even if just for a few minutes when the calendar is crazy. The best part is that it’s not the end, that is, she knows it can only get better, and that in itself is a healing. Big hugs to you Joan and Tomas for never giving up. You’re changing lives for the better, and what can be more satisfying.” – Len, Entrepreneur
“You have no idea how helpful our conversations and your sage advice are to me. This has been both a difficult time but also a time of growth and change for me. Julie and I feel fortunate to have found you and Tomas. Our lives are better individually and together.” – Ken, Therapist