Joan & Tomas Heartfield
We have been researching relationship with great enthusiasm since 1996. Our dedication to one another, and to research in the ‘field of the heart’ has provided us with an enormous amount of data. We know what it takes to ‘go the distance’ and create a life worth living.
We live what we teach. Our personal lives, and our work lives, are a blend of what we have personally found effective. We continue to evolve as we discover useful tools and implement them into our lives.
“Because of my exposure to your work, I was able to take everyone to a new more embodied level in my own work. I am very grateful both personally and for what I am now able to offer others.” ~Tim Freke, Hay House author
What We Offer
Our Mission is to help you learn to bring your love to each other as sweetly, passionately and as effectively as possible through compassionate communication, sacred sexuality and intimacy skills.
Effective communication is key to a good relationship. We help you understand your own feelings and your universal human needs. We also help you understand as those of your partner, so that when there is conflict, you have the ability to resolve issues. You learn that needs never conflict. The conflict is in your strategies to get your needs met. You learn to work together, as allies, to find strategies that work for you both. You also learn to appreciate the differences in your partnership, and to have empathy for one another’s feelings and desires.
Passion is important in relationship, and our sex lives have to continually evolve for both partners to enjoy the changing terrain of sexual loving. We share Tantric and Taoist lovemaking techniques, as well as showing you how to increase your own vitality and life force. We show you the quality of energy that you must have, for love to flourish.
Who We Serve
We serve both singles and couples. For many years our work has given the singles community an opportunity to discover what it takes to find love and nurture its growth. Through our Conversations that Matter and Opening to Love Ceremonies, we have helped thousands create loving relationships, heal from past trauma or create more meaningful relationships. We also counsel individuals in life goals clarification, sexual wounding and trauma, and in removing blocks to deeper intimacy.
Our couples Romancing the Beloved work has been created to give couples an opportunity to take their loving relationship to the highest levels. Couples discover how to communicate more effectively, how to become better lovers, and how to create a relationship filled with Spirit. They leave with fresh energy, insight, deepened intimacy and a new level of commitment.
We are core staff for the Divine Feminine-Awakened Masculine Institute. Along with Caroline Muir, we give trainings where the sacred teachings of Tantra, Tao and Spiritual Psychology are woven together into a complete curriculum that provides powerful support for illuminated understanding. The purpose of our certification program is to raise the standard of Spiritual Sexual Education as well as insure that certification meets a standard of professionalism. See www.divine-feminine.com for details.
“The Heartfield’s ground-breaking work and superlative trainings are some of the best workshops available anywhere on these fascinating topics regarding fulfilling love relationships.” ~Teresa Ann Foxworthy, Producer of LOVE in the 21st CENTURY